Nick F, 25, NYC
One main thing about oral sex is that a lot of guys will dull the nerves in and around the clitoral region by repeated patterns. The guy will think his tongue is going crazy, but it's just passing straight through the clit over n over again, just from different angles
The secrets are: trace the alphabet in lowercase then the numbers 0-9 over the girls clit and then uppercase letters and then 0-9 and repeat again and he has to make sure to use his tongue like a paintbrush when doing it and not the tip like a pencil. Gotta throw your face down in between the girls legs n get ur face all nice n wet.. tongue fucking her pushing your tongue into the girl works too and then like pulling up and drawing the whole length of your tongue from inside her pussy to over her clit in a single slow sweeping motion is good too, same thing with licking over her asshole and then over her pussy and over her clit and back down.
I like having the girl lay doggystylish with her ass in the air and face down in a pillow basically because it makes her more sensitive due to the vulnerable feeling and then licking her pussy from her clit to her asshole and then back down and eventually just start rubbing her clit, fingering her and licking/kissing her asshole for triple stimulation. If she covers her mouth/nose with the pillow when she's closer to orgasming n breathes she gets less oxygen which will make the orgasm more intense--a lot safer than some of the other oxygen deprivation things like choking because the girl can change it whenever.
During "normal" oral sex when the girl's getting closer to orgasm, retain a steady n moderate pace with the licking ups on her clit with pressure (as always) to deliver intense orgasms and same for when fingering her at the same time you dont want the fingering and the licking to be completely sequential a little bit off from each other but still pretty close to give the right "waves" for the orgasms contractions n then when she cums keep going for the first second or two or three of her orgasm (depending on her lengths) and then when she's about to peak then intensify slightly to draw out the orgasm longer n make her cum harder. Pushing up with one hand on the skin above her pussy will also expose her clit from her clitoral hood more for more stimulation.
After she's cum and her clit is resensitizing go and lick and tonguefuck her pussy and stay away from the clit but trace your tongue on the outer labia and inner labia to make her wanting it more again. Fondling breasts with your hands while eating her out or lightly caressing her inner thigh or stomach is good to draw more sensitivity to the region as long as it doesnt tickle her.
For sex, if she's riding the guy, the guy should take some of her wetness from her pussy and rub it over her asshole and then lightly rub/caress or even finger (if she's okay/comfy with it) her asshole to intensify her orgasms and take the other hand and put it on the small of her back and basically give her a deep tissue massage with ur fingertips, like pressing in with fingertips up and down the base of the spine because the signals are sent along the spine and this will accelerate the pleasure ;]
And if the guy's on top in normal missionary position, enter the girl and press lower stomach right above the guys cock against her pussy and then once full thrusted in her (I prefer the slower but deep and powerful thrusts for this reason) lift up a little to press against her G-spot inside with the guys cock and then that will also rub against her clit and the pressure will draw blood to it to sensitize it more. Then pull out and the shaft in its elevated state will rub against the girls g spot more and the release of pressure from the clit will excite it more n thus stimulate the g spot and clit at the same time.
My other secret is if you have a hand or tongue or something that could be used to help make the other cum and you're going nothing with it, ur not maximizing pleasure. Thus, you should reach up and play with the girl's breasts while sucking on her clit or finger her for some G-spot action or do light anal foreplay if she's not freaked by it.
One main thing about oral sex is that a lot of guys will dull the nerves in and around the clitoral region by repeated patterns. The guy will think his tongue is going crazy, but it's just passing straight through the clit over n over again, just from different angles
The secrets are: trace the alphabet in lowercase then the numbers 0-9 over the girls clit and then uppercase letters and then 0-9 and repeat again and he has to make sure to use his tongue like a paintbrush when doing it and not the tip like a pencil. Gotta throw your face down in between the girls legs n get ur face all nice n wet.. tongue fucking her pushing your tongue into the girl works too and then like pulling up and drawing the whole length of your tongue from inside her pussy to over her clit in a single slow sweeping motion is good too, same thing with licking over her asshole and then over her pussy and over her clit and back down.
I like having the girl lay doggystylish with her ass in the air and face down in a pillow basically because it makes her more sensitive due to the vulnerable feeling and then licking her pussy from her clit to her asshole and then back down and eventually just start rubbing her clit, fingering her and licking/kissing her asshole for triple stimulation. If she covers her mouth/nose with the pillow when she's closer to orgasming n breathes she gets less oxygen which will make the orgasm more intense--a lot safer than some of the other oxygen deprivation things like choking because the girl can change it whenever.
During "normal" oral sex when the girl's getting closer to orgasm, retain a steady n moderate pace with the licking ups on her clit with pressure (as always) to deliver intense orgasms and same for when fingering her at the same time you dont want the fingering and the licking to be completely sequential a little bit off from each other but still pretty close to give the right "waves" for the orgasms contractions n then when she cums keep going for the first second or two or three of her orgasm (depending on her lengths) and then when she's about to peak then intensify slightly to draw out the orgasm longer n make her cum harder. Pushing up with one hand on the skin above her pussy will also expose her clit from her clitoral hood more for more stimulation.
After she's cum and her clit is resensitizing go and lick and tonguefuck her pussy and stay away from the clit but trace your tongue on the outer labia and inner labia to make her wanting it more again. Fondling breasts with your hands while eating her out or lightly caressing her inner thigh or stomach is good to draw more sensitivity to the region as long as it doesnt tickle her.
For sex, if she's riding the guy, the guy should take some of her wetness from her pussy and rub it over her asshole and then lightly rub/caress or even finger (if she's okay/comfy with it) her asshole to intensify her orgasms and take the other hand and put it on the small of her back and basically give her a deep tissue massage with ur fingertips, like pressing in with fingertips up and down the base of the spine because the signals are sent along the spine and this will accelerate the pleasure ;]
And if the guy's on top in normal missionary position, enter the girl and press lower stomach right above the guys cock against her pussy and then once full thrusted in her (I prefer the slower but deep and powerful thrusts for this reason) lift up a little to press against her G-spot inside with the guys cock and then that will also rub against her clit and the pressure will draw blood to it to sensitize it more. Then pull out and the shaft in its elevated state will rub against the girls g spot more and the release of pressure from the clit will excite it more n thus stimulate the g spot and clit at the same time.
My other secret is if you have a hand or tongue or something that could be used to help make the other cum and you're going nothing with it, ur not maximizing pleasure. Thus, you should reach up and play with the girl's breasts while sucking on her clit or finger her for some G-spot action or do light anal foreplay if she's not freaked by it.
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